…and welcome back to my blog.
Before signing off on my series of reasons why people come to counselling I wanted to do a brief recap of everything that’s been covered, just in case you missed anything.
Feelings of Isolation and Loneliness
We are social beings – this means we all need social interaction and relationships in order to live healthy and fulfilling lives.
Feelings of isolation and loneliness can occur when we believe there is a gap between our desired social contact/intimacy and what we actually have, or to the perceived quality of our relationship(s).
This can result in feeling like an outcast, and thus finding it difficult to build and maintain meaningful relationships, as well as impacting our overall wellbeing.
For further information visit: https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/02/05/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-feelings-of-isolation-and-loneliness/
We can all experience stress in our daily lives, it is normal and to be expected. Sometimes it can motivate us to be learn and grow, but sometimes it can be distressing and overwhelming.
Stress is defined as any uncomfortable emotional experience, in which ultimately we feel threatened. When this becomes prolonged it can impact us physically, psychologically and behaviorally.
For further information visit: https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/02/12/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-stress/
Our need to connect, and therefore to make relationships in order to bond, is innate. Relationships represent what it means to be human, however they cannot survive on their own, they need the nurturing of two people.
When relationships fail they can cause us significant pain and distress. This not only affects how individuals view themselves, but can effect their existing relationships with others as well as their ability to create new relationships.
For further information visit: https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/02/19/reasons-why-people-come-to-counselling-relationships/
Depression is more than just being unhappy, it’s about feeling persistently sad and in a low mood for an extended period, which effects functioning in daily life including work, relationships and interests.
It will affect individuals behaviourally, psychologically as well as physically, with some being aware of what has triggered their depression, while others may not.
For further information visit: https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/02/26/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-depression/
Feeling anxious is a normal part of daily life as it alerts us to dangers as well as helping us to be more productive.
Sometimes however, anxiety can become constant, overwhelming and out of proportion, which effects the sufferers daily life, potentially to a debilitating degree. Anxiety may have been triggered by a traumatic event, past experiences or sometimes there is no known reason.
For further information visit: https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/03/05/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-anxiety/
Emotions, both the pleasant and the unpleasant, are part and parcel of everyday life. They demonstrate how we feel about experiences, people, situations as well as ourselves.
At times we will experience difficult emotions which will be distressing, painful and overwhelming. Society however tells us that feeling such emotions is not desirable, and individuals may feel the need to be happy all the time, which can cause further distress when they feel that this is simply not possible.
For further information visit:https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/03/12/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-difficult-emotions/
Difficult Life Events
Life has a habit of forcing us to experience, expected or unexpected, life events. When these life events are difficult they can cause pain and distress. They may even disrupt our lives in unforeseen ways, causing further worry and anguish, where individuals feel unable to cope and can become isolated from loved ones.
For further information visit:https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/03/19/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-difficult-life-events/
Difficult Health Conditions
At some point in our lives we will all experience a difficult health condition, whether it be chicken pox or the flu to something more chronic or possibly even terminal.
Suffering from a difficult health condition, or caring for someone with a difficult health condition, can significantly impact a persons daily life as a result of restrictions from enforced inactivity to confinement to house or even the bed. Whether the condition be physical or emotional such restrictions can result in further emotional vulnerability.
For further information visit:https://kgrcounselling.com/2019/03/26/reasons-people-come-to-counselling-difficult-health-conditions/
The above is by no means an extensive list of reasons why you or anyone may wish to come to counselling. It is also simply a recap of my recent series of ‘Reasons why people come to counselling’, so if anything has stood out, or if you want more information please click the link below the relevant topic which will take you to the individual blog.
My hope was to capture a variety of experiences, feelings and/or situations which may prompt someone to seek help. None of these reasons are by any means a sign of weakness, in fact they are all a sign of being human, it’s just sometimes we may not quite have the resources to sort it out ourselves.
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